Sadie VegasWe Have a Consent Problem On Our Hands[note: this isn’t my usual content, but I needed somewhere to publish this. Content warning for sexual assault]Mar 16, 2021Mar 16, 2021
Sadie VegasWhy I’d rather gnaw off my arm than call a partner “friends with benefits”I promised I’d go into details as to why I hate the term “friends with benefits”, and here we are.Feb 22, 2021Feb 22, 2021
Sadie VegasYes. I do have expectations.Perhaps the biggest pitfall in the nonmonogamy community is this comically “zen” approach to dating. Some of the dating philosophies sound…Feb 3, 2021Feb 3, 2021
Sadie VegasIt doesn’t need to be perfect. But it needs to be genuine.I have never read a book so slowly, that I was also so engaged with, in my entire life.Feb 1, 2021Feb 1, 2021
Sadie VegasThere Is No Room For Me in Your HeartLove isn’t pie — finite, and the more people who come to the table, the smaller your slice will be. Love is pi — infinite and irrational.Jan 30, 2021Jan 30, 2021
Sadie VegasTerms and ConditionsI briefly mentioned J in my previous post, and now he makes an encore appearance.Jan 26, 2021Jan 26, 2021
Sadie VegasNo More Bandaids — or “How I Learned I was a Serious Monogamist… As a Polyamorist”I talked quite candidly about my feelings on those who have no time for their partner(s) and yet stay active on dating apps. And, because…Jan 25, 2021Jan 25, 2021
Sadie VegasYou Still Show Up in PolyamoryI should’ve known things were not going to work out with this particular partner, when he told me that he was grateful I was polyamorous…Jan 24, 2021Jan 24, 2021
Sadie VegasNRE WithdrawalAs I’ve mentioned in another post, I am on a dating moratorium. De facto monogamish, as I like to call it. I have my anchor partner — whom…Jan 23, 2021Jan 23, 2021
Sadie VegasPokémon PolyamoryI mentioned in my previous post about Pokémon Polyamory. It’s a term I (semi)jovially use to describe the polyamorous people who “gotta…Jan 22, 2021Jan 22, 2021
