Sadie VegasWe Have a Consent Problem On Our Hands[note: this isn’t my usual content, but I needed somewhere to publish this. Content warning for sexual assault]6 min read·Mar 16, 2021----
Sadie VegasWhy I’d rather gnaw off my arm than call a partner “friends with benefits”I promised I’d go into details as to why I hate the term “friends with benefits”, and here we are.3 min read·Feb 22, 2021----
Sadie VegasYes. I do have expectations.Perhaps the biggest pitfall in the nonmonogamy community is this comically “zen” approach to dating. Some of the dating philosophies sound…3 min read·Feb 3, 2021----
Sadie VegasIt doesn’t need to be perfect. But it needs to be genuine.I have never read a book so slowly, that I was also so engaged with, in my entire life.5 min read·Feb 1, 2021----
Sadie VegasThere Is No Room For Me in Your HeartLove isn’t pie — finite, and the more people who come to the table, the smaller your slice will be. Love is pi — infinite and irrational.3 min read·Jan 30, 2021----
Sadie VegasTerms and ConditionsI briefly mentioned J in my previous post, and now he makes an encore appearance.4 min read·Jan 26, 2021----
Sadie VegasNo More Bandaids — or “How I Learned I was a Serious Monogamist… As a Polyamorist”I talked quite candidly about my feelings on those who have no time for their partner(s) and yet stay active on dating apps. And, because…3 min read·Jan 25, 2021----
Sadie VegasYou Still Show Up in PolyamoryI should’ve known things were not going to work out with this particular partner, when he told me that he was grateful I was polyamorous…3 min read·Jan 24, 2021----
Sadie VegasNRE WithdrawalAs I’ve mentioned in another post, I am on a dating moratorium. De facto monogamish, as I like to call it. I have my anchor partner — whom…4 min read·Jan 23, 2021----
Sadie VegasPokémon PolyamoryI mentioned in my previous post about Pokémon Polyamory. It’s a term I (semi)jovially use to describe the polyamorous people who “gotta…3 min read·Jan 22, 2021----
